surviving an affair

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5 Ways to Overcome Your Obsession With a Married Man

The affair is over. He’s a married man, and you know you need to move on. The problem is you don’t know how. You still love him and you can’t stop thinking about him. You know you should walk away because he’s cheating on his wife. He’s a married man and you have to let go…but your heart wants him back.

5 Signs Your Wife is Having an Affair

If you’re wondering if your wife is having an affair, you are not alone. Husbands are more likely to suspected of cheating than wives. Yet, a surprising number of women cheat. Here are several signs of a cheating wife, plus a short “infidelity quiz” that helps husbands objectively assess their wives’ behavior. I found the quiz on the Focus on […]

5 Signs Your Boyfriend Will Cheat on You Again

Sometimes an affair is “just” a short-term fling, never to happen again….but not always. Here are five reasons to believe your boyfriend will keep cheating on you. These tips are inspired by a reader whose boyfriend cheated; she wants to know if she can trust him again. “I just found out that my boyfriend of almost 3 years cheated on me,” […]

Why He’s Having an Affair and How to Recover

Surprising new research shows why some husbands have affairs and why wives are more prone to anxiety and insomnia. Plus, here are three tips for recovering from an affair, from family therapist Vikki Stark’s book Runaway Husbands: The Abandoned Wife’s Gide to Recovery and Renewal. Before the therapist’s tips for healing, I share new research about why some men cheat on […]

How to Rebuild Trust After an Affair

These five steps towards trusting your partner again are inspired by Ann Landers. If you need to know how to rebuild trust after an affair, you have to start at the beginning. One of the first steps is to find out why he cheated. Books like The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It […]

How to Forgive Your Girlfriend for Cheating

A betrayed boyfriend shares how he forgave his pregnant girlfriend for having an affair. If your girlfriend cheated on you, his experience may help you forgive and rebuild your relationship. After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful by Janis Spring will help you forgive your girlfriend after cheating. You’ll learn that a staggering […]