Relationship Tests

How to test a relationship, to see if it’s healthy and strong.


What to Do When Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Spend Time With You

Your boyfriend says he loves you, but he’s not here beside you. Here’s what to do when your boyfriend doesn’t spend time with you, plus tips for renewing your heart, mind and soul. You may feel neglected and lonely, but you have more power than you think! You don’t have to sit and wait for your […]

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How to See the Truth About Your Relationship

These 10 qualities of an unhealthy, bad, or failing relationship will help you face the truth. Yes, it’ll be hard. Yes, your heart may get broken. But you know what? You’ll be relieved to finally admit the truth about your relationship to yourself. And to others. Facing the truth about your relationship doesn’t necessarily mean […]


7 Things to Remember When You Miss Your Boyfriend    Recently updated !

You don’t have to feel lonely, sad, and bored because your relationship is in a slump! Instead, here’s what to remember when all you can think is “I miss my boyfriend.” Filling your life with good and fulfilling things will make you happy and healthy – and bring you alive in a whole new way. “I am […]

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10 Qualities of a Good Man

Is He a “Bad Boy” Who Will Break Your Heart? 10 Qualities of a Good Man

Sure, he’s charming, smooth talking, and sexy…but he is one of the good guys? These top 10 qualities of a good man will help you quickly see the warning signs of a bad guy. You’ll see your guy for who he is…not who he wants you to think he is. First, here’s what a reader called Ed said […]


How to Decide if You Should Stay or Go

Are you ready to move one step closer to making a good decision about your relationship? These tips on how to decide if you should stay or go are from married relationship counselors; they encourage us to identify what we’re yearning for. “It is yearning that sparks the creation of everything from inspiring art, soul-stirring music, majestic […]

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Is He Cheating? How to Be Your Own Private Investigator

These 12 practical ways to find out if he is cheating are perfect for women who don’t want to hire a private investigator. You can stop wondering if he is cheating, and start doing your own detective work! “People cheat out of boredom, to make their lives more like James Bond,” says private investigator and […]


3 Things to Consider When You’re Questioning Your Relationship

Asking questions about a relationship can be healthy, even though it feels painful! These 3 considerations will help you through the “I’m questioning my relationship” phase. Recently, two readers have asked very similar questions. They’re both facing relationship issues that are testing their love, but not destroying their commitment to their boyfriends. “My boyfriend and […]

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How to Save an Unhappy Marriage Without Couples Counseling

How to Save an Unhappy Marriage Without Couples Counseling

Imagine being so happy with your husband that you hope and even pray your daughter has the same experience! These tips on how to save your unhappy marriage without going to couples counseling will help you see your relationship – and your life – differently. My tips are inspired by two women. One is my […]


How to Stop Going Back and Forth in Your Relationship

The only thing worse than you going back and forth in your relationship is when your partner can’t decide if he wants to be with you. Here’s how to make a decision about your relationship, how to stop going back and forth, and how to find peace with the decision you make. “I knew I […]

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Still Small Voice

How to Listen to the Still Small Voice

Here are 7 steps to listening the still small voice and applying it to your life. You’d be amazed at what you know – or what you COULD know – if you listen… I’m talking about listening to the still small voice in the context of relationships, but my tips apply to any aspect of life. […]


How to Make a Decision That Will Change Your Life

You make dozens of decisions every day, and some have the power to change your life forever! These tips on how to make a decision will show you the most important thing about decision-making: how to listen to that still, small voice and trust yourself. Every week on Blossom, I write four articles on a […]

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How to Be Creative Without Fear of Criticism

These tips for being creative are for women in relationships. How do you be creative without fear of criticism or judgment from your husband, boyfriend, or significant other? I was inspired to write this article by a reader who is struggling to find her creative hobbies. Reading books about art and creativity is one way […]