Relationship Advice

Relationship advice for women and men on quips and tips for love and relationships.


What to Say When Your Boyfriend Asks to Borrow Money   Recently updated !

Should you lend money to your boyfriend? Probably not, but it depends. Here are five things to think about when your boyfriend asks to borrow money – especially if you aren’t sure if you should loan it to him. These tips are inspired by a She Blossoms reader. “My 65 year old boyfriend is preparing […]

What to Say When Your Boyfriend Asks to Borrow Money

When Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Spend Time With You

What to Do When Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Spend Time With You

Your boyfriend says he loves you, but he’s not here beside you. Here’s what to do when your boyfriend doesn’t spend time with you, plus tips for renewing your heart, mind and soul. You may feel neglected and lonely, but you have more power than you think! You don’t have to sit and wait for your […]


When to Say “I’m Still in Love With You” to Your Ex

These signs you should tell your ex-boyfriend or ex-husband you’re still in love with him will give you courage. I also included four signs you shouldn’t say “I’m still in love with you” to your ex, to help you decide what to do! On When You Feel Scared You’ll Never Be Loved, a reader asked […]

Signs You Should Say “I’m Still in Love With You” to Your Ex

10 Things to Talk About With Your Girlfriend

10 Things to Talk About With Your Girlfriend

You’re in luck! It’s easier than you think to find interesting things to talk about with your girlfriend. The most important thing to remember is that you can’t make your girlfriend love you…but you can be someone who can be loved. What does being lovable have to do with finding things to talk about, you […]


5 Ways to Help Your Boyfriend Deal With Depression

These tips on how to deal with a depressed boyfriend are inspired by a reader’s comment. I also included several signs of depression in men, to help you determine if your boyfriend is actually dealing with depression – or if something else is bothering him. How do you relate to a boyfriend who is depressed? […]

how to deal with a depressed boyfriend

when you're missing your boyfriend

7 Things to Remember When You Miss Your Boyfriend    Recently updated !

You don’t have to feel lonely, sad, and bored because your relationship is in a slump! Instead, here’s what to remember when all you can think is “I miss my boyfriend.” Filling your life with good and fulfilling things will make you happy and healthy – and bring you alive in a whole new way. “I am […]


How to Stop Being a Clingy Girlfriend

If you’re obsessive about your relationship and trying to control your boyfriend, then you’re a clingy girlfriend. Here’s how to stop – and how to undo the damage neediness causes in love relationships. On my article about how to stop thinking about your ex, a reader said: “I am clingy and obsessive to my boyfriend. He […]

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How to Build Trust With Your Boyfriend

How to Know if You Can Trust Someone in a New Relationship

A new relationship is both scary and exciting, risky and rewarding! It’s even better when you trust your new partner. These tips on how to know if you can trust a new boyfriend are inspired by a reader who says… In Daring to Trust: Opening Ourselves to Real Love and Intimacy, David Richo says we […]


8 Ways to Build Trust in a Relationship

You need to know how to build and nurture trust in your relationship, because it’s the foundation of a strong, healthy connection that will stand the test of time. These tips on how to build trust will help you set the stage for a great relationship with your partner. I wrote Rebuilding Trust in a Relationship […]

How to Build Trust in a Relationship

10 Qualities of a Good Man

Is He a “Bad Boy” Who Will Break Your Heart? 10 Qualities of a Good Man

Sure, he’s charming, smooth talking, and sexy…but he is one of the good guys? These top 10 qualities of a good man will help you quickly see the warning signs of a bad guy. You’ll see your guy for who he is…not who he wants you to think he is. First, here’s what a reader called Ed said […]


7 Ways to Know If Your Relationship is Worth Fighting For

Have you reached the tipping point in your relationship? Here’s how to know if your relationship is worth fighting for, or if you should throw in the towel and start another round with someone new. “I know that love changes and there are different phases of love,” says Toni on How Love Changes Over Time. “But […]

How to Know Your Relationship is Worth Fighting For

How to Love an Emotionally Unavailable Man 

How to Love an Emotionally Unavailable Man 

You’re in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man, and you love him too much to leave. Writing hundreds of relationship articles – and reading thousands of comments – has shown me that you’re not alone! In this article, you’ll find 10 tips on how to love a man who isn’t available emotionally or spiritually. But […]