How to Deal With a Break Up

Tips on how to deal with a break up and move on with your life.


How to Get Past the Pain After He Broke Up With You

When my boyfriend broke up with me, I thought I’d never get over it. But guess what? I learned how to get past the pain – and you will, too! You are not alone. You will heal because you are stronger, smarter, and more courageous than you think. One quick tip for getting past the pain is to listen to […]

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Sick and Tired of Being Alone

What to Do When You’re Tired of Being Alone 

Whether you recently lost a loved one – or you feel lonely in a relationship – these six things to do when you’re sick and tired of being alone will help you reconnect with yourself. One of my newest Blossom readers emailed me, asking for help getting over a broken heart. I don’t give advice or offer personal counseling, but I’ve been […]


A Simple Cure – How to Get Over a Broken Heart

The cure to getting over a broken heart depends on the reason your heart broke. Here are 20 most frequently asked questions (FAQ) from readers about how to get over a broken heart. You’ll see yourself here – and you may find the cure you need in these stories and insights. This post is inspired by a man whose girlfriend broke up with him […]

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10 Reasons Why Breaking Up is Hard to Do

You know it’s over, but you can’t bring yourself to end your relationship. Here’s why breaking up is hard to do, plus several ideas for moving forward in freedom and faith. In the song “Breaking Up is Hard to Do”, Neil Sedaka says “Remember when you held me tight; And you kissed me all through the night; Think of all […]


How to Stop Obsessing About What Happened

You know you’re wasting time and energy, but you don’t know how to stop. Obsessing about what happened in the past is more common than you think – but don’t worry! I have three steps that will help you let go of what’s behind you. I spent the last two days updating and revising How to Let Go of Someone […]

How to Stop Obsessing About What Happened

How to Forget Someone

How to Forget Someone – A Lesson in Deadheading

The hard truth is that you’ll never learn how to forget someone completely. The good news is that you CAN deadhead the past and make room for fresh new growth in your life. Deadheading is life-giving in gardening. It may sound harsh and deathly, but it actually brings life and fresh growth to a plant. To deadhead a “spent” plant is […]


6 Ways to Survive a Christian Divorce

These practical and spiritual tips on how to survive a Christian divorce will help you see you’re not alone. You can handle anything – even a divorce you didn’t see coming and never wanted – if you stay connected to God. In Christian Chick’s Guide to Surviving Divorce – What Your Girlfriends Would Tell You If They Knew What To Say, […]

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Prayer for Healing After a Break Up

A Prayer for Healing After a Breakup

After breaking up, you may feel like you’ll never love or laugh again. This prayer for healing after a breakup is inspired by a money parable – the Parable of the $20 Bill – and includes several tips on how to recover from a breakup. In Hearing God: Developing a Conversational Relationship with God, Dallas Willard answers questions such as, How […]