Breakups are painful; infidelity and affairs are worse. Being cheated on is an emotional, physical, and psychological betrayal that doesn’t just heal overnight. How do you get over someone who cheated on you and lied about it – especially if you loved a man or lived with your husband for years?
“I don’t trust my husband,” said Shelly, a She Blossoms reader in Vancouver. “I want to, but he lied about money and what he does after work so many times…I just can’t trust him. I know he cheated on me at least once but he denies it. How do I live with a husband I don’t trust?”
You know it’ll hurt, but you need to find out for sure if your wife is having an affair. This quick little “is she cheating on me?” test will help you see your wife’s behavior more objectively. More importantly, you’ll see your marriage in a different light. You’ll also learn that an affair doesn’t mean you are an unlovable or undesirable husband.
Can’t afford a private investigator? Don’t want to hire someone to follow your husband or boyfriend around? These 12 practical ways to find out if he’s cheating will help you find the answers you need (but don’t necessarily want to face!).
It hurts, but you know you need to end the affair. These suggestions aren’t just tips on how to break up. Rather, they will help you see that a healthy ending will ease the pain and soothe your soul. You’ll see your affair in a different light. You’ll also realize that ending the affair is about rebuilding your self-respect and focusing on why you can’t keep cheating.
You didn’t cause your husband to cheat — he chose to have an affair. But, your marriage style may have created an environment that set… Read More »Why Your Husband Cheated: A Marriage Style That “Allows” Affairs