6 Ways to Enchant a Man


Here’s how to enchant a man, so he can’t help but fall in love with you! These six ways to make a man love you will change how you relate to him – and they’ll help you be your true self – with a dash of splash.

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Enchanting a Man

How To Enchant A Man: Spells to Bewitch, Bedazzle & Beguile by Ellen Dugan offers you something I can’t: a smoldering book of spellcrafting will show you how to find and keep true love. How to Enchant a Man is an easy-to-use guidebook that will help you embrace your inner goddess by learning to love yourself, spark a man’s desire with come hither flirting and seduction techniques, cast sexy spells for every moon phase, season, and day of the week, and enhance your magnetism and outer beauty with glamour spells.

And here are a few tips for falling in love and enchanting men…


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How to Enchant a Man

Before you jump into these tips for making him fall in love, ask yourself why you want to enchant him. Do you really want to share your life with this man, or are you scared of being alone? Have you dated him for at least a year, or are you rushing into something serious, like a marriage proposal?

Love isn’t all fun and games. But falling in love can be fun and creative…

Be a positive, interesting, fun person (but don’t just pretend – stay true to you!). The more upbeat and cheerful you are (without overdoing it or being superficial), the more enchanted your man will be. Talk about positive events, memories, and feelings – such as your last vacation, a funny joke, or last night’s episode of Whatever Reality Show You’re Hooked On. Negativity and complaining won’t enchant him or make him fall in love. For every negative thing you say, make five positive comments.

If you and your man are like oil and water, read 4 Tips for Couples With Wildly Different Personality Traits.

Wear a light scent – and wear the same perfume or cologne all the time. Psychological research from Northwestern University shows that a light lemon smell increases likeability without people even being aware of it. You don’t have to smell like a lemon, orange, or lime tree to get a marriage proposal – any pleasant, barely perceptible scent will make you appear more attractive. And, if you wear the same perfume or cologne all the time, your boyfrien will learn to associate that scent with you. The more positive associations he has of you, the more likely he’ll be to fall in love.

Be genuinely interest in his life, job, and family. “People are flattered when you find them appealing – and they naturally reciprocate,” says Dr Ann Demarais, co-author of First Impressions: What You Don’t Know About How Others See You. “Also – when you’re confident, you appear more attractive.”

Do you care about his life, work, and family? This isn’t a trick to enchant him or get a marriage proposal — it’s a real question and a real issue you’ll deal with all your married life. If you’re not interested in your boyfriend or his life, then why would you want him to fall in love with you?

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How to Enchant a Man

Really listen to what he says – because attention how to enchant a man. This is similar to my last tip, and it’s not just about making him fall in love with you. It’s about having a real relationship with him. There’s no point in being curious about your boyfriend if you don’t really care about him, or if you don’t listen to his thoughts or opinions. If you don’t have a genuine, sincere attitude towards your boyfriend, he probably can feel it…and you won’t get a marriage proposal.

The bottom line: if you’re in this relationship just because you want to get married, then you’re aiming at the wrong target. Make sure you’re compatible and that you want to be with him. Read 5 Things to Look for in a Life Partner.

Smile and enjoy your life – but don’t fake it. Do you love your life? The more in love you are with your own life, the more likely he’ll be to fall in love with you. A pleasant, happy life makes you more attractive, and makes you approachable and friendly. To keep your face open and happy, think positive thoughts! Be grateful for small mercies (eg, a day without a headache or stomachache) and the luxuries you’re accustomed to (eg, easy access to free articles on making men fall in love with you!). Make it a habit to recall your last vacation, a funny joke, or last night’s episode of Two and a Half Men.

Find ways to enjoy your life. You’ll enchant both yourself and him.

Be honest about your mistakes. Research shows that people who make mistakes are more likeable than those who seem perfect. People who make mistakes are seen as more approachable and less judgmental than “perfect” people – so don’t be afraid to share your imperfect personality traits or your mistakes! Being authentic and real increases your “attractiveness quotient” and shows your boyfriend that you’re normal and fallible…just like they are. It’s enchanting to men when women are real.

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Make Him Fall in Love

If you don’t have a relationship yet – but you do have your eye on a man – you might find How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You helpful. Author Leil Lowndes says it’s a surefire guide to love for anyone seeking romantic bliss.

“Love doesn’t sit there like a stone, it has to be made, like bread; remade all of the time, made new.” ~ Ursula K. LeGuin. How will you make and remake your love? It depends on your personality and relationship.

Is your man reluctant to jump into a relationship? Read When You’re in Love With Someone Who is Scared to Love You Back.

Do you have any thoughts or questions on these tips on how to enchant a man? Comments welcome below…


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  • Laurie Post author

    A big part of me thinks you can’t make a man fall in love with you. You can be funny, enchanting, authentic, and friendly….but love happens for reasons we often can’t pinpoint. It’s chemistry, or a past life, or hormones. We can’t manipulate love, or control people and make them love us.