You’re still in love, but it’s time to seriously think about how to end the affair. These suggestions aren’t just “breakup tips.” Rather, these ideas for healthy endings will help you see the your affair in a different light. Ending the affair is about rebuilding your self-respect and focusing on why you can’t keep cheating.
Accepting that he broke up with you is hard. Getting past the pain of a broken heart is even harder because it literally feels like you’re dying. When my boyfriend broke up with me, I thought I’d never get over it. I didn’t think I’d ever be loved again — or that I’d even want to love someone else. The pain was all I could see.