Blossom Before the Wind Blows

“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” asked Mary Oliver.

Blossom Before the Wind Blows

Blossom Before the Wind Blows image by amongstotherthings via flickr

I’ve been thinking about this question a lot lately because Wayne Dyer, Wes Craven, and Oliver Sacks all died within a couple days of each other.

Wayne Dyer taught me not to look backwards, at the wake left behind me. Instead, I keep my eyes focused on where I want to go and who I want to be.

“Imagine a boat going down the river,” said Dyer. “When you’re standing at the back of the boat, looking at the water as you’re going along at forty knots, what you see there is the wake. The wake is the trail that’s left behind.

You can ask the question, ‘What’s making the boat go forward?’ It can’t be the wake. The wake can’t drive the boat. It’s just the trail left behind. It can’t make the boat go forward, any more than the trail that you’ve left behind in your life is responsible for where you’re going now in your life.”

The wake behind you is no longer useful or necessary. Don’t let it drag you under, or anchor you in a place you don’t want to be.

Need encouragement? Get a beautiful FREE "She Blossoms" 2019 calendar when you sign up for my free weekly Blossom Tips!

One Blossom Tip a week. Short and sweet. You'll love it.

* indicates required

What is it that you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?

As for us, our life is like grass.
We grow and blossom like wildflowers;
Then the wind blows, and we are gone –
No one sees us again.

– Psalm 103:15-16

Blessings and Blossoms,



New Blog Posts on Blossom






Blossom Before the Wind Blows

Blossom Before the Wind Blows


The only thing you can do with your life is give it away.

The best, happiest moments in your life are always

When you’re giving something away.

– Wayne Dyer



My Books - She Blossoms

Growing Forward When You Can't Go Back She Blossoms Laurie Pawlik
Growing Forward When You Can't Go Back - to help you walk through loss into a new season of life. I share glimpses into my life with a schizophrenic mother, living in foster homes, teaching in Africa, and coping with infertility. Woven through the book are practical, encouraging Blossom Tips to help you grow and flourish!

How to Let Go of Someone You Love She Blossoms Laurie Pawlik

How to Let Go of Someone You Love - Powerful Secrets (and Practical Tips!) for Healing Your Heart After a Breakup. Do you feel like you'll never get over your broken heart? This ebook - available immediately - will help you heal. It's time to let go of what was, and embrace what will be.

When You Miss Him Like Crazy She Blossoms Laurie Pawlik

When You Miss Him Like Crazy - 25 Lessons to Move You From Broken to Blossoming After a Breakup! You miss him desperately right now, but you won't always feel this way. This warm, comforting ebook will give you the tools, encouragement and strength you need to move through the pain and start blossoming - today!

Leave a comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *