The first step is to say “I want to be a writer” out loud. The second step is to move forward with these tips for starting a writing career.
Don’t limit yourself to reading blogs and websites about writing. Read books such as If You Want to Write: A Book about Art, Independence and Spirit by Brenda Ueland. Dig into as many books about writing as you can, so you learn what it really means to be a writer. Saying “I want to be a writer” is not enough. You have to work at it!
“It’s the child writer who has figured out, early on, that writing is about saving your soul,” writes Betsy Lerner in The Forest for the Trees: An Editor’s Advice to Writers.
Do you want to be a writer to save your soul? Do you want to be a writer to get rich quick? (Don’t kid yourself – writers don’t get rich quick!). Do you want to be a writer to share what you’ve learned — and possibly enlighten your readers? Or maybe you want to be a writer just because you like to titillate, entertain, amuse.
It’s all good, fellow scribes. You can write for whatever reason you want — as long as they’re your reasons.
“I Want to Be a Writer!!!”
Relax. You have what it takes to be a writer (probably)
“I would say there’s no such thing as a natural talent, but after working with many authors over the years, I can offer a few observations,” says Lerner. “Having natural ability doesn’t make writing any easier (and sometimes makes it more difficult), having all the feeling in the world will not ensure the effective communication of feeling on the page, and finally, the degree of one’s perseverance is the best predictor of success.”
If you’re worried you can’t write or you won’t get your book or article published, I want you to take a deep breath. Then, buckle up for the long haul — because that’s what a “real” writing career is all about.
Commit yourself to writing your book or establishing your freelance writing career
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Have you finally come up with a brilliant plot, character, article idea, or book topic? Commit to that idea and start writing. Are you ready to start pursuing freelance writing jobs — or perhaps monetizing your blog? Create a work schedule. Do not give up on it — and if you get sidetracked because you gave birth to twins or had to give cancer a kick in the as*, then get right back into writing.
Let the success of other writers inspire you
It can be easy to slide into dejection and jealousy if other writers write more, write better, write faster, sell more articles, land more agents, and get bigger book deals. But remember that another writer’s successful career doesn’t lessen your chances for getting your book or article published! There really is room for everybody…and there’s more room for writers who really want to be writers. Trust me. You can start a writing career. You can earn money writing.
I want to be a writer. Say it over and over…until you can say I AM a writer because you believe in yourself.
Ride your horse in the direction it’s going
This is one of my favorite quips! I wanted to be a writer for many decades, and it was only when I finally decided to let my career/horse lead me that I succeeded. Even though I landed a literary agent (for a book I didn’t really want to write) and kept getting freelance magazine assignments (for articles I wasn’t 100% enthralled with), what I really wanted to do was write for myself. I wanted to focus on writing — blogging — for my “Quips and Tips” websites.
When I finally decided to ride my horse in the direction it was going, I started to make more money as a writer and blogger. If I was at the start of my writing career, I tell myself to relax into the type of writing that I most want to do. Ride, baby, ride.
Be true to yourself as a writer — and a human being
“If you pretend to be someone you’re not, your writing voice will sound forced,” write Mlynowski and Jacobs in See Jane Write: A Girl’s Guide to Writing Chick Lit. These authors encourage writers to create a world you understand, that you naturally gravitate towards.
“I’ve gotten tons of manuscripts from older women trying to sound like 25 year old hipsters, recent college grads trying to affect the voice of a hardened career girl, and women who’ve never spent a day in New York City trying to work the attitude of a grizzled Manhattanite,” writes Jacobs. “Sure, some people can pull off these hat tricks, but I’m here to tell you that most can’t.” If you want to be a writer, write what you know…or what you can learn a lot about.
Be prepared for rejection and criticism. O stinging nettles!
You can’t say “I want to be a writer” and not expect obstacles, setbacks, and roadblocks! “If you give up at the first rejection, then you’re selling your book – and yourself – short,” write Mlynowski and Jacobs. “Sometimes the best thing to do is take whatever advice was given in your rejection letter and rework that manuscript; in other cases, you might want to start something brand new and come back to the first story later.”
If you want to start and sustain your writing career, fellow scribes, you need to learn how to fail and bounce back from rejection.
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Have you started your writing career, or do you just keep thinking “I want to be a writer”?