accepting a breakup


How to Get Past the Pain After He Broke Up With You 1

When my boyfriend broke up with me, I thought I’d never get over it. But guess what? I learned how to get past the pain – and you will, too! You are not alone. You will heal because you are stronger, smarter, and more courageous than you think. One quick tip for getting past the pain is to listen to […]

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How to Forget Someone – A Lesson in Deadheading

The hard truth is that you’ll never learn how to forget someone completely. The good news is that you CAN deadhead the past and make room for fresh new growth in your life. Deadheading is life-giving in gardening. It may sound harsh and deathly, but it actually brings life and fresh growth to a plant. To deadhead a “spent” plant is […]

How to Forget Someone

A Prayer for Healing After a Breakup 9

After breaking up, you may feel like you’ll never love or laugh again. This prayer for healing after a breakup is inspired by a money parable – the Parable of the $20 Bill – and includes several tips on how to recover from a breakup. In Hearing God: Developing a Conversational Relationship with God, Dallas Willard answers questions such as, How […]

Prayer for Healing After a Break Up

Help Getting Over a Breakup – How to Change Your Story 7

You need help getting over a breakup, and the tired old tips aren’t working. Try this instead: learn how to change your story so you can change your perspective of your relationship, your self, and your life. This can help you heal. In Retelling the Stories of Our Lives: Everyday Narrative Therapy to Draw Inspiration and Transform Experience, David Denborough […]

How to Change Your Story Help Getting Over a Breakup

How to Heal Your Broken Heart

Of course there is no one right tip on how to heal a broken heart – but there are several ways to regain your self-esteem and confidence after a breakup. In How to Let Go of Someone You Love, I share advice from relationship coaches and grief experts. I wrote that ebook after writing a blog post on letting go […]

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Help for When You’re Broken Hearted

Whether it’s a relationship break up or a loved one’s death, you’ll find help for when you’re broken hearted here. I start with hope, and end with practical help for healing hearts. In Comfort: A Journey Through Grief, Ann Hood shares her personal story of losing her five year old daughter Grace. Talk about broken hearted – losing a child […]

Hope When You’re Broken Hearted

How to Start Over After a Breakup 2

These tips on starting over after a breakup will help you see that your relationship isn’t the most important thing in your life. You will move on and be happy again – and it’s only your effort that counts. One of my favorite books on how to start over after a breakup is It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken: The […]

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