Marriage Problems

Help for marriage problems, for couples who are recently or forever married.

Why He’s Having an Affair and How to Recover 4

Surprising new research shows why some husbands have affairs and why wives are more prone to anxiety and insomnia. Plus, here are three tips for recovering from an affair, from family therapist Vikki Stark’s book Runaway Husbands: The Abandoned Wife’s Gide to Recovery and Renewal. Before the therapist’s tips for healing, I share new research about why some men cheat on […]

Why Your Husband is Having an Affair and How to Recover

How to Stop Worrying About Your Relationship Problems 4

You know it doesn’t help to worry about your relationship problems, yet you can’t stop, right? Wrong! You CAN learn how to stop worrying. Here’s how. This week I’ve been writing about relationship problems and making decisions. My first three articles in this series are: How to Make a Decision That Will Change Your Life 7 Tips for Letting Go […]

Relationship Problems How to Stop Worrying

4 Ways to Stop Criticizing Your Husband

Critical people don’t just criticize others, they’re also critical of themselves. These tips on how to stop criticizing your husband are inspired by a reader’s comment and question. John Gottman, author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert, is a researcher who specializes in how couples communicate. He says being […]

How to Stop Being Critical of Your Husband

When You Regret Getting Married 2

These tips for what to do when you regret getting married are inspired by a husband. He’s a nice man who rushed into a marriage because of “love at first sight.” After the wedding, the relationship changed. In How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Patricia Love and Steven Stosny teach couples how to get closer in ways that don’t […]

Marriage Regrets

How to Get Relationship Help

The comment I always get from readers is “I need relationship help!” So, here are the best tips on how to get relationship help. I can’t give advice about relationships because I don’t know the full story, and the issues are always deeper than how they appear on the surface. In Rising Strong, Brene Brown describes the power of living a […]

Tips for Getting Relationship Help

How to Get Over Your Affair With a Married Man 14

You’re unhappy about having an affair with a married man, but you don’t know how to get over him. Here, you’ll find tips for breaking off a relationship with a man who is married. May you find freedom, peace, love and joy in your life – and may you hold on to your vision of a beautiful future with a […]

How to Get Over a Married Man

How to Fix a Broken Relationship

Some relationships can’t be saved, and others just need a bit of tender loving care. These tips on how to fix a broken relationship will help you see what steps to take next. I also included five “love lessons” for healthy marriages from married people over 65 years old. In Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s Brain and Attachment Style […]

How to Fix a Broken Relationship