Love Advice

Love advice for women and men, couples, and singles looking for love.


Lost That Loving Feeling? When to Give Up On Your Marriage 6

The bad news is it doesn’t matter how you feel. That’s also the good news! Why? Because your marriage commitment goes beyond feelings. Here’s how to know when to give up on your marriage instead of trying to make it work – these tips are inspired by a reader who asked for help deciding if she should stay or go. If […]

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How to Stop Being a Controlling Girlfriend 1

Controlling girlfriends don’t make life light or enjoyable for their boyfriends – or themselves. These tips on how to stop trying to control your boyfriend will help you ease up and let your relationship unfold naturally. I’m writing this post for a reader who commented on How to Deal With Your Husband’s Toxic Ex-Wife. She is a self-confessed “control freak”, and […]

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How to Increase Self-Love and Improve Your Relationships 3

Healthy relationships aren’t just built on love; they’re rooted in self-love. Learn how increasing self-love will improve your relationship in powerful ways, and change how you see yourself. How do you see yourself? This is an important question, because how you see yourself is how you see everything. If you don’t love yourself, you can’t genuinely love someone else. If […]

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5 Best Ways to Get Good Relationship Advice 3

You know something needs to change in your life, but you’re not sure what. How do you find good relationship advice for women? Here are a few easy steps to get you started. I recently wrote about recognizing the signs of good relationship advice…and then I realized I didn’t actually talk about how women can get relationship advice that is trustworthy and insightful. […]

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How to Listen to the Still Small Voice 3

Here are 7 steps to listening the still small voice and applying it to your life. You’d be amazed at what you know – or what you COULD know – if you listen… I’m talking about listening to the still small voice in the context of relationships, but my tips apply to any aspect of life. How can you know what […]

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5 Ways to Find Yourself After Getting Lost in Love 2

Feeling “lost in love” is all chocolate and roses in the beginning … but then comes the saggy middle. Here’s how to find yourself after getting lost in a relationship; these tips are important whether your relationship is still going strong or has limped to a halt. Why do you need to learn how to find yourself when you’re lost in […]


How to Be Happy Even in an Unhealthy Relationship 5

Here’s my dirty little secret: I write more about breaking up than fixing unhealthy relationships. So, this week’s series is on how to be happy even if you’re in a relationship that isn’t healthy. One of the most important things I’ve learned from my readers is that not all relationships – not even the unhealthiest, most abusive ones – can […]

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