Breaking Up


How to Forgive and Recover From Your Spouse’s Infidelity

Forgiving your spouse’s infidelity won’t happen overnight. Being physically or emotionally unfaithful was a process for your spouse, and learning how to forgive him will be a process for you. These suggestions for forgiving a spouse’s infidelity are inspired by a wife – Anna – who commented on my article about trusting a spouse after infidelity. Her husband was unfaithful after […]

how to forgive spouse infidelity

When You Find Out Your Wife Cheated on You

You’re deeply wounded, but you’re brave enough to type the words “my wife cheated on me.” And you are not alone. Every week, thousands of husbands find out about their wives’ affairs. “We got married 18 years ago and yesterday I found out my wife cheated on me,” says Ben on Is Your Wife Having an Affair? Signs of Cheating. […]

what to do my wife cheated on me

How to Get Past the Pain After He Broke Up With You 1

When my boyfriend broke up with me, I thought I’d never get over it. But guess what? I learned how to get past the pain – and you will, too! You are not alone. You will heal because you are stronger, smarter, and more courageous than you think. One quick tip for getting past the pain is to listen to […]

my boyfriend broke up with me

What to Do When You’re Tired of Being Alone  4

Whether you recently lost a loved one – or you feel lonely in a relationship – these six things to do when you’re sick and tired of being alone will help you reconnect with yourself. One of my newest Blossom readers emailed me, asking for help getting over a broken heart. I don’t give advice or offer personal counseling, but I’ve been […]

Sick and Tired of Being Alone

Dating After Divorce – 3 Things You Need to Know 1

What advice have you already received about dating after divorce? Set it aside for now. Here’s what you really need to know when you’re thinking about new relationships after the end of your marriage. While researching “dating after divorce”, I discovered that some divorcees think that most people are not looking to date someone who is divorced. Do you believe […]

dating after divorce

7 Ways to Deal With Depression After a Breakup

Eating chocolate, taking a bubble bath, and finding online dating apps like Tinder aren’t on this list of tips for dealing with depression. When you’re getting over a breakup, you need more. “I feel depressed because my relationship ended eight months ago and we were together for five years,” says Riata on How to Get Over Depression. “Sometimes I want to cry […]

dealing with depression getting over a breakup

Why He’s Having an Affair and How to Recover 4

Surprising new research shows why some husbands have affairs and why wives are more prone to anxiety and insomnia. Plus, here are three tips for recovering from an affair, from family therapist Vikki Stark’s book Runaway Husbands: The Abandoned Wife’s Gide to Recovery and Renewal. Before the therapist’s tips for healing, I share new research about why some men cheat on […]

Why Your Husband is Having an Affair and How to Recover