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7 Tips for Starting a Writers’ Group – Writing Alone, Together

Of course you should start a writer’s group – what are you waiting for?! A writers’ group can increase your productivity, inspire you to write more, and motivate you to send your writing to literary agents, magazine editors, and book publishers.

When I mentioned my writing group on Twitter, and received several “I wish I belonged to a writers’ group, but there aren’t any in my area” or “My writing group disbanded – and I really miss it!” responses. Whether you’re a freelance writer, aspiring novelist, or published poet – a writers’ group can keep you motivated, disciplined, productive…and published.

How do I know this? Because I started a writer’s group several years ago, and witnessed firsthand the benefits of writing with a group of motivated, encouraging, and supportive aspiring authors! We discussed everything from how to write an author bio when you’ve never been published to the most common reasons manuscripts are rejected by editors. So, here are my tips for starting a writer’s group.

First, though, let’s run through a quick list of reasons you should start (or at least join!) a group of writers…

Benefits of a writers’ group:

  • Information sharing, which leads to growth
  • Inspiration from successful experiences
  • Support for rejections and feelings of failure
  • Encouragement to keep going
  • Feelings of solidarity and connectedness
  • Feedback for your writing, article ideas, or plans
  • Accountability for your writing goals

Also, if one or more of the writers in the group goes to a writing conference or workshop, she can share what she learned. Not only does this benefit the other writers, it’ll help solidify the writing tips in her own brain. Teaching is a great way to really learn something 🙂

7 Tips for Starting a Writers’ Group

Don’t worry if you don’t know what you’re doing. Here’s what bestselling author John Irving said about taking risks as a writer:

How to Start a Writing Group“If you don’t feel that you are possibly on the edge of humiliating yourself, of losing control of the whole thing, then probably what you are doing isn’t very vital.” – John Irving.

I had no idea what I was doing when I started my group for writers. But guess what? I learned lots! These tips will help you start and sustain your first writing group.

1. Decide on the best place to meet

My writer’s group started in a classroom at our local elementary school and moved to our homes (we rotate through the members’ houses). We’ve also met in the pub, which wasn’t as comfortable as a home. Other great places for writers’ groups to meet include the library, an uncrowded coffee shop, or a spare room in your local community center.

2. Be clear from the beginning about the structure of your meetings

Will you read your writing out loud, and will everyone give feedback? Will you email your story, article pitch, or book proposal before the meeting? Will you write during your meetings (that wouldn’t work for me – but it may be appealing to writers who struggle with motivation or time to write)? Will you brainstorm story ideas or wrestle with plot problems?

3. Start stretching your writers’ group from Day One

Be flexible about tweaking the structure based on group dynamics, location changes, new members, etc. Instead of rigidly adhering to “the way we’re supposed to do it”, consider mixing things up a little. For instance, if you meet every two weeks, you could alternate between a critique night and a “just talking about writing” night.

4. Be clear about what you’re looking for in a writers’ group

As I told my writing buddies last night (waving to my fellow WOBBERS! which stands for Write on Bowen 🙂 ) – I prefer sharing our writing goals, experiences, information, and inspirations. I’m not big on reading my writing out loud, nor do I love critiquing others’ writing. But, a writer’s group should be an amalgamation of what everyone needs and wants – which is where flexibility and open-mindedness comes in.

5. Develop clear guidelines for members, book genres, leaders, etc

Here are a few questions to help you set guidelines for your new writing group:

  • Is your group open to new writers?
  • Should all members write in the same genre?
  • How will feedback be offered?
  • What are the goals of your writing group?
  • Who will lead the meetings?
  • What is the purpose of your meetings? (eg, to write together, or offer feedback, or read your writing aloud, or a blend of it all?)

When you’re starting a writer’s group, it helps to have a plan. My group recently faced a dilemma involving a possible new member; we weren’t all on the same page (as it were) and we hadn’t decided beforehand if we were ready for new members.

6. Re-evaluate your writing group regularly

As a group, agree on the guidelines for meeting and sharing your writing. Then, re-evaluate your goals and practices regularly – such as every quarter or every September.

7. Consider recruiting a co-leader

When I started my writer’s group almost 10 years ago, I had a co-leader who pulled out at the last minute because of other commitments. I wasn’t happy spearheading the group on my own, so I let it wither away. One of the members encouraged me to start it up again (Maggie!) – and I’m so glad I did. It’s a smaller group and I’m not “in charge”, which made me happy..

For me, the best part of this writer’s group – besides the motivation and encouragement – is seeing how we’re achieving our goals as writers. We’re completing novels, book proposals, and articles. Together, we’re forging ahead in this crazy business – and our progress is sweeter because we savor it together.

a guide for writers and starting a writing groupTo learn more about writers’ groups – or to start your own writers’ group – read Writing Alone, Writing Together: A Guide for Writers and Writing Groups by Judy Reeves. She has lead all kinds of writing groups and classes, and gives concrete examples of what works best. Her book is well-organized, and interesting to read!

This book will help you get organized, and learn how to critique your and others’ writing in helpful, encouraging ways. Judy discusses how to write, where to write, who to write with, how to critique, how to revise, etc. You can even form an online writers’ critique group with her tips — and improve both your group and your writing.

If you’re not motivated to write (much less start a writers’ group!), read Writing a Novel? How to Stay Motivated.

Fellow scribes, do you have any thoughts or questions about starting a writers’ group? Feel free to write below…



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30 thoughts on “7 Tips for Starting a Writers’ Group – Writing Alone, Together”

  1. A friend and I started a writing club because we felt isolated, and we knew people who felt the same. Now we meet regularly at someone’s home, keeping it casual and inexpensive. I’m writing my third novel and my original friend is working on her memoirs. Two members are poets, and the other is a blogger. We’re all working on different things but we’re not writing alone. It’s fantastic! And super easy to start.

  2. Thanks for your thoughts on starting a writing group, Darlene! Yes, living in a small town makes a difference to everything….from grabbing a carton of milk at the store to participating in a group that can get personal and emotional. When I started my writers group, I lived on Bowen Island, BC. Very small! Luckily, we didn’t have any problems…but I can definitely see how control issues can arise.

    One of the biggest things writers have to learn how to deal with is rejection. Here’s an article I wrote, to help aspiring authors cope:

    10 Tips for Dealing With Rejection as a Writer

    Keep me posted on how your writers’ group goes!

    In peace and passion,

  3. My friend and I are in the planning stage to start a writers group. Your website has been very helpful in this process. The questions you suggested for people who want to start a group are great. Some I had not thought about. There was a group before but was dissolved because of control issues. I hope we can easily address any issues/problems and move forward. Our town is small, and what I don’t want is for the group to have a bad reputation.

  4. Hi Linda,

    I haven’t encountered this situation in a writers’ group before, but I have co-facilitated many book clubs and other groups.

    The way I see it, the main problem is that April refuses to acknowledge that she is causing problems in your writer’s group. It’s normal for facilitators to experience conflict with each other or group members. However, when they refuse to try to find a way to compromise, then what hope is there for moving forward?

    I believe April feels threatened by a lack of control. She wants to control what your members write about, how to run the group, and what the group should look like in the new year.

    Since you can’t talk to April about running your writers group in a positive and cooperative way, maybe you need to think about multiplying your group. Maybe you could come up with a format that you’d like to see happen in your group, and email that to your current members. They could have the choice to join your group or stay with April’s – or maybe stick with both!

    I think that’s how I’d handle the situation, if I wanted to continue leading the writers’ group. If I wanted to take a break from facilitating, I’d just withdraw and say I need to focus on other things in my life for now.

    I hope this helps a little…I hate to be a downer, but I can’t think of any way to get April “on board” with a cooperative, positive way to co-facilitate the group!

    If anyone else has any suggestions, please let us know.