What you wear to work has a huge effect on your self-confidence, your work relationships, and even how often you get promoted at work. These tips for deciding what to wear to work are inspired by Lois Frankel, author of Nice Girls Don’t Get the Corner Office.
“Research shows that about 55% of your credibility comes from how you look,” writes Frankel in Nice Girls Don’t Get the Corner Office: Unconscious Mistakes Women Make That Sabotage Their Careers. “How you sound accounts for an additional 38%. Only 7% of your credibility is based on what you say.”
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In Nice Girls, Frankel encourages women NOT to avoid office politics. Why? Because if you don’t play the game, you can’t possibly win. She also says not to multi-task — and she strongly encourages women to learn how to negotiate, both at work and everywhere else. Don’t equate negotiation with confrontation, though.
Watch how you use social media (eg, Facebook, Twitter, blogs, etc). You might even be careful what you say on the comments of various blog posts! Once it’s out there, it’s hard to put the toothpaste back in the tube. And don’t ask for permission. Children, not adults, ask for approval. Be direct, be confident.
What Should You Wear to Work?
These tips on what to wear to work are from Frankel’s book. If you’re curious about how famous women dress, read Wearing What You Want to Work – Whoopi Goldberg.
Wear the appropriate amount of makeup at work
“I once asked the boss of a woman scientist for feedback about what she could do to overcome existing barriers to promotion,” writes Frankel in Nice Girls Don’t Get the Corner Office. “He explained for her staff.” When Frankel pressed him – he looked like he had something else to say – he sheepishly said, “Maybe she could start wearing makeup.” Finding the balance between beauty queen and working stiff can affect how quickly you get job promotions and raises!
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Match your clothing style to your workplace
A business casual clothing tip for women is to tune in to the vibes at work. Is your office understated, or your trendy store upper-class? Don’t neglect your fashion sense altogether, but remember that you’re not only representing your company, you’re representing yourself.
I recently received a very interesting question from a reader about difficult coworkers and fashion, which I answered in When Your Coworkers Complain About What You Wear to Work.
Remember that short hair looks more professional
Knowing what to wear to work includes choosing a hairstyle that complements your image. “Typically, your hair should get increasingly shorter as you get older and go higher on the corporate ladder,” writes Frankel. “Not only is shorter hair more professional, but longer hair tends to emphasize facial features of which we may be less proud as we age.” The higher your position, the more professional you need to look.
Consider what your role models are wearing
An easy, effective clothing tip for businesswomen is to look at the women in senior positions in the office. That’s how you should dress. This clothing is especially helpful for career women who don’t have time to follow fashion trends.
View clothes as an investment in your future
Frankel advises women to buy several really good business casual outfits a year. Budget for good-quality clothes, haircuts, and occasional makeovers.
Don’t groom in public
This tip is less about clothes, and more about behavior: don’t touch your hair unnecessarily, fix your makeup in a meeting or at a business lunch, or spend long amounts of time in the ladies’ room during business meetings.
Leave the long, dangly earrings at home
Don’t overdo your jewelry and other accessorizes. “Carefully chosen, accessories add style and personality to otherwise conservative corporate attire,” writes Frankel. “But when inappropriate or overdone, they detract from your credibility.”
Match what you’re wearing to your activities that day
If you’re giving a presentation to a large group of people, feel free to choose bolder accessories. Be aware of the impression you want to make on your colleagues and clients, and use your clothes and accessories to achieve the effect you want!
Wear glasses to look more mature
“Glasses can be used as a prop to make you appear more mature, if you have difficulty with being taken seriously because you look too young,” says Frankel. This business clothing tip is both functional and effective.
Do you need more money to buy good clothes for work? Read How to Ask for a Raise With Confidence.
If you have any thoughts on these business casual clothing tips for women, please comment below.